Cock Tease


     Sometimes I think we get so caught up in “labels” and “definitions” that we lose sight of our own pleasure principles.  Are we fully DOM or semi-sub?  Are  we switching or topping or bottoming?   Maybe if we’d simply “do what we feel” honestly and directly without trying to judge every movement or moment, we’d find we’re far more “versatile” sexually than we imagined.  Sure, we can command a sub to do anything within reason, but what if as a DOM, we command him/her to be the seducer sometimes?  Are we giving up too much control?

   Even DOM/DOMMEs can get a little bored with the same old-same old all the time.  It doesn’t mean we’re less in control, but it may mean we’d enjoy surprises, too.  I fear that sometimes DOMs and DOMMEs become locked into a certain type of behavior.   They invert or circumcize part of their human response because of some self-definition they apply to being Dominant.  Now certainly if it’s not in your nature to enjoy a little wildness or “out of your control time”, that’s fine, but consider that the same old rut can get tiring.

   Why not try to introduce some “uncharacteristic behavior” into your routine once in awhile.  See what happens…

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